The mind of an Adult and the Habits of a child……….
If you are above 10 means you are kind of an adult. You have now responsibilities to fulfill and to act upon.Going to school is also a
responsibility that you are doing for your own self ,caring about health,caring about what you gonna do after matriculation. See the foundation of all the responsibilities starts from our own self.Caring about our ownselves we learn that this outside world is working on the same rules that I am living on and that’s where the sense of responsibility starts.The sense of knowing that i have to do some work (for myself or for any other one) that’s where the responsibility starts.
When we came into this world we didn’t know about anything except “CRYING”. The single piece of knowledge that we all had at that time
was to cry at things we wanted and the things that were painful.This the most natural thing that we all have just deleted from our lives.
SHEDDING TEARS DOES NOT MEAN WE ARE BROKE SO THAT ANYBODY CAN USE US ITS JUST A WAY OF SHOWING EXTREME EMOTIONS.
If you are a mature person what your society tells you “if you are in pain never ever cry”. They considered tears as sign of cowardliness.What they are doing is that they are forcing you to stop a natural process entirely.What they are telling you is to capture that anxiety that your tears are holding and those tears just want to get out of your eyes just to release that pressure
that regret but the people you are surrounded by forcing you to not to shed that tear so that you can feel much better than before.
ATTACHING YOUR VALUES TO THIS MATERIAL WORLD WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE.
what they are installing in your mind is that crying is a cowardly act and if you cry means you don’t have the courage to face the situation,to fulfill the requirement of the time.
A new born baby doesn’t have the sense of what is happening with him or around him.People just keep smiling in front of him… that baby
has nothing to do with that smile but what he/she is doing is that he is just copying that action from you and saying in his/her mind.
So next time when you look at his face he will smile(but it takes time). Anything he sense becomes the fundamental of his life. That’s
why people say”you gatherings are responsible for what you are doing now.Gatherings does’nt mean just your parents,your friends,your
relatives.It means the people that you are learning from or the people you are surrounded by.It can be bad or it can be good.Yes your
parents can teach you the worst part.For example: your father can be a drug addict,your mother can be abusive,your family can be
(unsupportive). They can be from a stupid society where they have never learned the etiquettes of how to bring up their own child.So
that’s where our naturally(perfectly)sorted mind starts to deteriorate.
Attaching yourself to any positive aspect of this world will make you a good open-minded person.Try to chase the positivity where
your heart and mind feels satisfied.Reading or absorbing something positive enlightens your mind. Isn’t it easy to ask your God please
make me a good person. Positive and negative aspects of life are in everybody’s fate.The only way to be positive is to get attach
with the nature.Don’t you think if we ask nature that we want to love you…….he who made us don’t you think how much he loves us…..a lot. Believe in your God.
Now what we are actually talking about the mind of an adult and the habits of a child. As a child we did have something inside us that
we can say (mindset) not knowingly we didn’t get jealous but we loved the competition.We have seen a lot of time if we give a task to two children
it can be just about chopping veges with their toy knife.when all of a sudden 1st child ask the other one that i am better than you its not
because he is envy of him.The other child not minding it minds his own business and try to compete him.Saying each other a looser they don’t intend to insult.Because they don’t have the mind to think of putting down others.Creatures are made positive with enlightened hearts and broad minds.The way a child think of a situation is that he just wants to win despite of what we think putting down others to feel superior.Just think of a life living like them.Isn’t it easy to not to respond to every situation so aggressively.
Not caring is a really big power.This is the only rule that was applied on us in our childhood or the only unbreakable shell we survived because of.
As a child we were born perfect (complete) having physical or mental power to perform and think isn’t great if you are trapped in them.If you are following the fundamentals created by the GOD then your are the perfect personality in this entire world.At that moment when you were a child and now you have the sense to work ……so how can you follow all those strategies that are in your mind just to win.There are two ways 1-to put other person down 2- or make yourself devoted to success.
As a child we followed these rules just to get that cheer up from surrounding. There was a lot worth noticing at that time.As a child we never attached our values (that i swear the most important asset in your life) to any material thing.For example as a child we didn’t know about red is a sign of danger and black is a sign of evil.
Na we didn’t know…… its us that injected these viruses in our children and that’s why their life gets so complicated with time.As a child we never cared about what we were wearing.We never had any problem with any sort of punishment.What is this adulthood that is producing negativity(ego,envy,fear and a lot more)
We all have to know that what ever is provided or whatever we make in this world is here for us is here to help us . we are not made for them all these things are made for us. we are spiritual beings we don’t have to attach our mental , emotional, physical values to anything in this world if we want to live a peaceful life.As a child .. Society the people we are surrounded by teaches us that this is the thing to get hurt.When we attached the value of being vulnerable to the opinions of the people we feel insecure and now you broke your shell of (not caring). The one who made us is the only deserving to our emotions and our values.Now if you learned
this now you have the responsibility to teach your children what really matters.
DON’T TRY TO ADD SOMETHING IN FUNDAMENTALS MADE BY THE GOD…IT CREATES UNBALANCE IN LIFE
Now you are responsible for your expenses not your parents not your society members so don’t listen to their their opinions that make you feel pissed off. yes you have to give your time to people (friends, siblings,relatives, neighbours ) their is a strong chance that they can be negative . Now you have to decide what kind of relation you want to make with them.(1min friend,10min friend)its up to you.Now your strong or eligible enough to leave the place where you don’t want to.It’s good for your own health.See how we transformed our lives in an opposite manner.In childhood when somebody grant us some work we were so passionate about that we kept doing
that until we finish it but now we are so addicted to comfort and ease that achieving something seems like to hike a mountain.
What we have to do now is just we have to polish ourselves and adopt those qualities that we have left behind with time.Complaining about something or everything is not always the answer may be you are the person who is doing it wrong .So self-awareness,self-realization is the most important of all.We have to find that passion,that love for work,the agility that we lost with time to be a great person.and most importantly leave all those useless habits that lead you to some negative ends .
when you find something negative in another person …first find it in yourself and fix it.
